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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-22 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #1967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1967 ⌋

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[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2012-05-23 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
No, it doesn't. I can enjoy some sexual stuff on a non-sexual level. I could consider some things as "fun" even though they don't turn me on. But there's some things that just really do nothing for me.

To give an example - Let's something like Japanese rope bondage. I don't find it a sexual turn on specifically, but I could totally have fun with teasing/tying someone up. I could even take joy in learning to do visually pleasing knots. I also enjoy being dominant in bed, so I could work with that.

But let's say something like dressing up as a nurse in a latex outfit...it's not like I oppose doing it on a moral level or anything - but I don't like how latex feels and I'd feel awkward and self-conscious wearing it, so I just wouldn't be having so much fun myself. Make sense? I'd be willing to try once - but if that was something the guy was really into, I don't really see myself doing it on a regular basis.

Edited 2012-05-23 19:42 (UTC)

[identity profile] drunken-clowns.livejournal.com 2012-05-23 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that totally makes sense. Thank you, that clears up the "enthusiastic" bit a lot.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2012-05-24 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
I think different people can mean different things with it - but to me it's not synonymous with "horny".

In fact, to me it works the other way around too. I could be horny but not enthusiastic about a certain sexual act either. Like, it could arouse my physically but I wouldn't feel happy participating in in per se.