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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-22 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #1967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1967 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
if you KNOW something is going to make you uncomfortable, that's the end of the fucking conversation. fuck you and fuck everybody else for implying people can't ~knock it until they try it. just fuck you.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-24 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
Whoa, that's not what I was saying. The initial conditions are: one person's interested, the other person is neutral or just never thought of it before, but both are good with it, not one person interested and the other uncomfortable.

These are the crucial lines from drunken_clown that I was replying to and agreeing with, here (emphasis mine):

"I think what they're trying to say is that sometimes making compromises is a good thing, as long as what's going on isn't like super disturbing to anyone.

and

Again, if you don't want to do something you shouldn't have to do it, but there is something to be said for being open to helping out your partner (if they're doing the same for you.)