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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-05 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1981 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1981 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-06-05 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL, so true (yeah, lol, better laugh than cry over this; at this point I just stopped giving a damn). There's all that - the "inability to remain faithful", the "you're just not willing to admit you're gay" (usually coming from lesbians) and "it's just a phase" (usually from straight) and of course the "aren't you getting confused" (from everyone.

So not confused here...

(Anonymous) 2012-06-05 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't forget "you are just saying that for attention," with the lesbians thinking you are het and trying to appropriate their cause and the straight dudes thinking you are just trying to titillate them.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-05 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Right on! How could I forget the accusations of appropriation ;)

DA

(Anonymous) 2012-06-06 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not a big fan of PDA regardless of the gender of the person I'm dating but when I was dating another woman I had a lesbian tell me I was doing it for the attention. I was confused as it is difficult for a casual observer to even tell if I'm dating someone and she said that I was trying to add an air of mystery to my fake bisexuality. I am still very confused over that!

(Anonymous) 2012-06-06 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Or how about "you just want to be able to fuck everybody"?

That always seemed weird to me. No one is going to be able to fuck EVERYBODY. And bisexuals probably don't have any more sexual partners than straight and gay people on average. It's just a matter of attraction.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-06 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I identify as bisexual and have had far less g/b friends than my friends and yet they still think of me as the 'slutty' friend.

[identity profile] broadwaybabe11.livejournal.com 2012-06-07 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
I sort of fall under this stereotype.. lol I have a large sex drive and I'm not against sleeping with a lot of people.
Sorry to all bis for reinforcing this stereotype a little bit >.> At least my boyfriend who is bi is the COMPLETE opposite.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-06 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
can i just throw out a general apology for the attitude even existing? it's really just one fabulous way of keeping people from uniting and working together for equal rights and such. so i'm sorry that this happens.