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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-05 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1981 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1981 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[personal profile] citrinesunset 2012-06-06 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Not all women "work" for lesbians or straight men, either. You might be attracted to men more, though, and that's okay.

Try not to hold yourself to a double-standard, though, because it can be easy to internalize them. For women, there can be a message that bisexuality doesn't really count unless they prefer women.

For way too long when I was younger, I acted like being bisexual meant I had to have an equal amount of attraction for men and women at any given time. But when it comes down to it, that just isn't realistic for a lot of people, and it's not something you can force.

In my experience, fandom is pretty accepting. Online communities can also be good places to come out first. There's less pressure. But you don't need to come out unless you're ready and want to.