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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-05 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1981 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1981 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-06-06 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I was in an exclusive relationship with the same two people for five years and still had to deal with that attitude from casual friends.

A friend of mine really believed that because I had two relationships at the same time I was somehow more sexually promiscuous than her even though she had eight relationships in the course of one year because each of her relationships were separate and distinct?

[identity profile] broadwaybabe11.livejournal.com 2012-06-07 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
This attitude floors me.
My best friend has this attitude and will talk about monogamy constantly like it's great. And compares humans to birds often. And gets pissed off when I point out that monogamy is not culturally universal among humans and that humans really practice serial monogamy, which is nothing like what bird species practice.
I'm not poly, I'm open (so maybe that does make me promiscuous) but I am tired of this idealization of serial monogamy. It's not what it is made out to be.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-06-09 06:37 am (UTC)(link)
I got the bird analogy from a relative once. All I said was, "Cool. I'll remember that the next time I'm a bird".

(Anonymous) 2012-07-10 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
bravo