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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-08 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #1984 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1984 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Little Shop of Horrors]


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[Sherlock BBC]


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15. http://i.imgur.com/Jxlnf.png
[sort of porny and possible underage; photomanip, Snape/Hermione]

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16. [SPOILER WARNING for Arrested Development]
[TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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17. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse, suicide]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual violence, rape, coercion, cult like mentalities, and violence]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for pedophilia]

[Let the Right One In/Låt den rätte komma in]


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21. [TRIGGER WARNING for body horror, gore]

[Parasyte]


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22. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #283.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-06-09 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
omg, yes. Completely agree with this. Not every situation warrants the same explosive response. If someone legitimately didn't know what they were saying or doing was wrong or hurtful, feels genuinely bad and apologizes, then move on. It's NOT appropriate to respond by

*Insulting them;
*Calling them stupid, ignorant assholes and then refusing to tell them what they did wrong;
*Further insulting them when they have the AUDACITY to ask that you explain to them why you're insulting them;
*Ask them to apologize and when they do, go on to tell them how their apology was fake, not good enough, passive-aggressive, or that it didn't matter anyway because "YOU'VE HURT PEOPLE AND YOU CAN'T EVER UNDO THAT, SO DON'T EVEN BOTHER TRYING TO APOLOGIZE, YOU'RE JUST AN ASSHOLE IF YOU DO AND IT SHOWS ME THAT YOU HAVEN'T LEARNED ANYTHING";
*Stalk, harass, bully, malign, shame, and dogpile them for weeks, months or years through different communities, websites, and their personal own journals;
*Go through their journals/other community posts, find things that you know bothers/hurts/triggers them, and promptly use that information to upset them.