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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-15 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #1991 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1991 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #284.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 2 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - unreadable ].
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's actually possible to save the friendship if you start being honest, if that's what you want. It's when you can't express negative feelings at all that a relationship stagnates.

But if you really want out of this friendship, I think you should just say so. You've said you're hurting your friend by trying to push them away. Just cutting ties isn't nice, but it's better than being cruel without an explanation.

However. It seems like the problem here might not be that you're friends at all, but that this person is your only close friend? People with totally different interests from you can be awesome friends, but if you don't know anybody with similar interests at all, it's easy to end up resenting the different-interests people because you're not getting that need met anywhere. I think what you should concentrate on is trying to meet new people who like the same things you do, and then, once you do, seeing how you feel about your current friend? Unless there are other problems too! But that's what I'm getting from the secret.