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fandomsecrets2012-06-18 06:45 pm
[ SECRET POST #1994 ]
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Regardless of whether you are that anon or not OP, the heart wants what the heart wants, but if you think this guy is perfectly okay cheating on his current girlfriend, why would you think he wouldn't do the same to you? Sounds from the secret at least that he's the type to have his cake and eat it too, etc.
If his intentions are good and he REALLY feels so gosh darn guilty why exactly doesn't he break up with her AND THEN move on to exploring the possibilities of other relationships?
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 12:15 am (UTC)(link)I fear the finale is really going to get these people upset, given the Asami/Makorra clips that have been shown. Alas, perhaps, just maybe, they learned to chillax and stop getting worked up over fictional people. We'll see!
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I fear the finale is really going to get these people upset, given the Asami/Makorra clips that have been shown. Alas, perhaps, just maybe, they learned to chillax and stop getting worked up over fictional people.
One can always hope but in this fandom that's highly unlikely. ;)
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 12:33 am (UTC)(link)Dear lord this fandom.
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 12:42 am (UTC)(link)no subject
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 02:16 am (UTC)(link)This link here sums up my dislike for Asami, and how the love triangle really is on Asami's paranoid shoulders, and not Mako's:
http://bestworstideaever.tumblr.com/post/25404746507/so-i-agree-that-makos-being-an-insensitive-idiot-but
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 03:01 am (UTC)(link)Do I think she should have picked a better time, place, and way to bring it up? Yes, very much so. But Mako doesn't help the situation by hand-waving what she's upset about.
As far as her being paranoid goes, is it, honestly, paranoia to feel insecure after 1. Finding out your SO not only did something that, for a lot of people [potentially including Asami], constitutes as cheating, didn't tell you about it, has feelings for someone else, and has been acting 'over protective' of the girl he has feelings for since she got back? Really? 'Cause, personally, I'd be an emotional mess and more than half-convinced I was about to be dumped. So, while I don't think she handled the situation anywhere near as well as she should have, it's not really resting solely on her shoulders.
tl;dr: She certainly didn't help matters, but she's not the only one at fault here - both her *and* Mako are.
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 05:42 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 06:42 am (UTC)(link)I honestly, at this point, think the reason why so many people completely love Asami, and hate Mako, with insanely intense emotions, is because...they're projecting. Asami is so flat that she -is- the viewer's avatar. They don't see Mako hurting Asami, they see Mako hurting -them-, and they're trying to make him pay for it. But...he's not real. Neither of them are, and they aren't really Asami.
It's kind of makes you sick, in a way, how dark the human mind can become!
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But wait, this is fandom, where people who care more than average about fictional people go to hang out. If we/they didn't get worked up about fictional people... fandom wouldn't exist.
I mean I agree there's a line beyond which people should maybe check themselves before saying horrible things to other people based on how they feel about a TV show.
But yeah.
Expecting people not to care at all seems unreasonable.
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 07:41 pm (UTC)(link)Like I said before, I'm now convinced people are reacting this way because they feel Mako is hurting -them-. They see themselves as Asami. They refuse for there to be any negative comment towards her character or writing, and will scream at the top of their lungs, call other people a string of expletives, just to be heard. If you make a negative comment about Asami, you're actually insulting -them-. They now firmly believe they are Asami.
The fandom thinks its Asami, and they want Mako to pay for hurting them. It's...kind of a creepy look into what the fanddom has become, on a psychological level.