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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-18 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #1994 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1994 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly? I'd suggest stop projecting - that's probably only going to end with you getting even more hurt at some point. Also, if you're really in a situation similar to them...then are you so sure that he actually is that 'in love' with you? I ask because the fact he hasn't left her, even though he knows that he's 'in love' with you is usually a good sign that *something* in what he's saying is off somehow. If he's using the 'I just can't leave her right now!' excuse? Then something is *really* starting to smell like a fish market.

Seriously though, if there is any real level of similarity between the two triangles, I'd suggest sitting down one day and thinking about what's going on, and how this situation is impacting all three of you...and if you really want to remain in a situation like that.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
A -female- classmate was like this with two guys, dating one but being so "in love" with the other (who, in a divergence from this situation, was her ex who wanted to be with her again), while staying with the steady one out of obligation.

I only know because she actually came to me for advice on what to do.

I told her to either:

a) choose one already and stop leading them both on

or

b) stop dating for a while

She promptly ignored me and kept doing her thing.

*sigh*

That was such an ugly mess, but that was in the last year of high school and I didn't stay in contact with her, so I have no idea how that ended up.

I can't imagine it ended well, though.

Leading people on and cheating is bad and only puts undue stress on everyone involved and not involved, is what I'm trying to say with this teal deer.

Don't do it, kids! :V

(Anonymous) 2012-06-19 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
...Okay? I'm not sure why you felt the need to post that in reply to my comment instead of the secret directly, but I guess that works.