[ SECRET POST #1998 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1998 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Peter Gabriel]


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10. [SPOILERS for the Hunger Games]



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11. [WARNING for abuse]



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[Hetalia]


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14. [WARNING for gore, animal abuse]
http://i.imgur.com/SjfD3.jpg
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[Video Games Awesome Live]


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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


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[American Horror Story]


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18. [WARNING for dub-con, grooming, brainwashing]



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19. [WARNING FOR general discussion of triggery topics (there's bound to be triggering material in the comments)]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #285.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 (warning for rape) - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

How hard is it to wrap a mind around this concept?

Probably because the idea of lying back and thinking of England which having sex that you don't want to have is seen by a lot of people as repulsive. You apparently would see it as a way to share intimacy with your partner, which is great, but a lot of us have been taught that if you don't want to have sex (which includes intent and arousal), then you don't have sex.

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[(Anonymous)]

This is one of my biggest beefs with asexuality as a thing.

I want to be an ally so badly, but that kind of stuff makes it so difficult for me to get on board with it.

[(Anonymous)]

This is why it's so awesome that people are starting to have discussions about what consent really means! There are different flavors of consent, from "fuck me right now" to "I'm asexual, but I want to be intimate with you." And then there are the things that some people think are consent but really aren't.

I'm not asexual myself, in fact I'm very sexual, but hope I can be a good ally for asexual people.

[(Anonymous)]

I am a hetero, cis female, and I am a romantic asexual. I am dating a guy who's a hetero cis male, who's romantic and not asexual. I find sex completely uninteresting, mentally, no matter who the partner is. My parents aren't prudish, I wasn't sexually abused, I've had multiple sex partners, and I currently have a great boyfriend.

I'm not physically opposed to the sex with my boyfriend, as he's an awesome guy and my body likes it. (No discomfort and the like) I'm just not mentally interested in it. I honestly thought I was broken for years, because I just wasn't interested in sex the way my friends were. I occasionally "need" it, biologically, but I don't really desire sex. So, basically, yes, it is absolutely, 100% consensual, because I care for my boyfriend and I want him to be happy. If I'm not feeling up to it, he never pressures me to have sex.