[ SECRET POST #2002 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2002 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

My closest guy friend has quit speaking to me because I dared to jokingly comment that he wasn't straight during a conversation where he was talking about liking a guy and debating asking him out. What the hell.

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe he felt like you made a joke about something he finds difficult to talk to people about. I don't know, I wasn't there. Ask him.

[(Anonymous)]

Men can be very sensitive about jokes regarding their heterosexuality - or lack thereof. (Because of heteronormative and BE A MANLY MAN pressures that society often puts on them.)

They also tend to react like that if you make jokes about penises (theirs in particular).

It's like, one of their main weak points.

[anonymouslyyours]

I feel like context is extremely important here. Why did you feel the need to comment on his orientation and what did you say? All I'm seeing is "I like this guy and want to ask him out." "You're not straight." I have no idea why you would want to say something like that.

[ooh_mrdarcy]

He's not straight, d'uh, I think he knows that. By the way he reacted it seems like he thinks you're making fun of him for not being straight.

"You're gay lol lol?"

If that was your first response to him talking about asking a guy out, I think he felt a little insulted and intimidated. Some ppl are insecure about this kind of stuff.

If you want him speaking to you again, I'd start by apologizing and telling him you're there for him and that sexuality doesn't matter to you.