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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-26 05:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #2002 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2002 ⌋

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - text comments ].
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Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
The time I came out to my dad was hilariously awkward.

It had been about a year since my parents got divorced and he was going to therapy. One time he asked me to come along as part of a family session.

I don't remember how it happened, but I mentioned to the therapist that I was sexually attracted to women. We then spent a few minutes discussing how to define sex.

The appointment ended and we were walking to the car when my dad said,"So, you never said you liked girls before."

And I going "Oh my god, I thought I had told you." Dad and I were really close. I had been openly queer for about two years by this point but had never dated anyone.

Everything went smoothly, he teased a little about my absentmindedness and I stopped flailing in embarrassment.

Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-06-27 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad it worked out for you!

Yeah, I forgot to tell my grandfather. I had assumed he would have known but realized he didn't when he O.O at me kissing my girlfriend and asked "So, is there something I should know?" He had some problems with it at first but things are pretty good now. Of course now my brother is dating a boy and trying to figure out how to come out as bi because he wants to bring him on the family trip and I just know I'm getting blamed for this one. :(

Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I had advice to give. To my knowledge, I'm the only one in my extended family who is queer. I really, really hope they don't lay the you made him gay/homosexuality is contageous bullshit on you. If they do, don't be afraid talk about in the general comments. We have an endless supply of virtual hugs.

Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-06-27 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
It'll probably be okay. My siblings and I are closer to each other than the rest of the family. We've handled quite a lot of crap from them over the years and while it'll be annoying I don't anticipate any actual problems that won't be solved by ignoring their requests for free baby-sitting or their favorite dishes at potlucks.
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Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

[personal profile] agentcthulhu 2012-06-27 03:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I knew there is a reason I liked you ;)