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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-30 03:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #2006 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2006 ⌋

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Re: Welp

[personal profile] demishock 2012-06-30 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not pathetic, anon. You're just in a bad place right now. Happens to all of us. Just hang in there.

I had a similar thing happen with my best friend back in high school. Best friend for 5 years, and then she started dating and decided that I wasn't worth being around anymore. That was almost 8 years ago and I still get down about it sometimes when I'm feeling real nostalgic. All I can tell you is that it's not the end of the world, and there are other, better people out there who you now have a good excuse to go meet. Doesn't mean it doesn't hurt or that you'll get over that person, but it hurts less with time. The fact that you've got at least two other friends already is a comfort; maybe now that you're not spending all your time with this other person, you'll get to know them better and realize you have more in common with them anyway. Won't know until you try.

As for sleeping and being afraid of the dark, I'm 25 and I slept with a nightlight all the way up until I graduated college, if that makes you feel any better. And even then, I only stopped because now my laptop sort of works like one, when it's on screen-saver. I can't stand being in pitch darkness; it feels like I'm suffocating. If you find yourself thinking too much about everything while you're trying to sleep, you could try listening to music, too. Doesn't matter what kind. If you have to listen to something loud and bombastic to drown it out, do that. If listening to something soothing helps you drift off, do that.

I hope things start looking up for you, anon.