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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-01 03:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #2007 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2007 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-01 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
When you get bored standing there watching her network, go find other things to do at the con. (Also, if there are other things you already want to do, go do them and don't let your friend get in the way.) Make "dates" to meet up with her during the con, like at meal times, when she's less likely to be networking. Don't ask if she wants to do this - put it in more definite terms: "Let's meet up for dinner. Six o'clock would be a good time for me." Also, do some of your own "networking" - even if you don't need the cosplay connections, go ahead and chat up the other cosplayers and photogrpahers. You might make new friends and by asserting yourself in your friend's presence, she is less likely to take you for granted.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2012-07-01 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I like this idea.

OP really shouldn't stand around and be bored when the whole point of conventions is having fun. If you have something you would rather be doing, do it! Maybe your friend will realize she's been ignoring you, or maybe not...but either way you'll probably be having a lot more fun and not feeling like you're wasting your time, and that's a good thing.