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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-01 03:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #2007 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2007 ⌋

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[personal profile] elaminator 2012-07-02 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
So...not sure what to say here tbh. I don't usually say or think this, but admittedly the first thing that came to mind was "Get over yourself". Because really, judging people isn't cool, and resentment over a film is just silly. Frustration I can understand, but that frustration possibly turning into actual hate for your friend? Seems a bit drastic and childish to me.

Then I read some of your other comments, and I now see there are other issues to consider. The thing is, if you really don't like this person anymore and are forcing yourself to be there for them in their time of need, that's on you. It might be nice that you didn't choose now to leave them, but it was still your choice, and if you decide to keep it up there will be things you'll have to put up with.

On one hand...what you're doing is thoughtful. On the other...it sounds like neither of you are enjoying each others company, you don't have similar interests and there's no real depth to your friendship, so you might not be doing her any favors by sticking around. If you grow even more resentful of her and yet continue to associate, I imagine she WILL eventually notice, and then you've ruined your own goal of keeping her from being depressed.