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case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
[ SECRET POST #2012 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]
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[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]
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[America's next top Model]
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[Common Law]
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[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]
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[the bachelorette]
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[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]

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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]

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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]

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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]

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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [WARNING for suicide]

[Park Yong Ha]
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17. [WARNING for abuse]

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18. [WARNING for abuse]

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19. [WARNING for rape]

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20. [WARNING for incest]

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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]

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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Welp
(Anonymous) 2012-07-06 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)Okay, first things first: Those people who hurt you, manipulate you and trap you? Not your friends. Hang out with them in school if you must, but do everything in your power to stop thinking about them as "friends". Friends don't mock each other or use each other like that. That's just shitty and they're doing you no favors; just like it's doing you no good to hang out with them.
You think you need the company, but they're only going to pull you down and down and down, with every little comment, glance, frown and general shittiness.
I know it's scary, but right now you need to cut off those negative influences.
Find different fandoms or shows; look into webcomics (I recommend Gunnerkrigg Court, Gastrophobia and MSPA Adventures, but there are tons others!); anything that you can find that doesn't lead your thoughts back to your group of "friends" or your ex-friend. Anything that distracts you. This is a wide internet!
If you can, take walks by yourself. Walk through a park, take your time to look at nature, or cool things, far away from your group of acquaintances. Make your own "me time".
Maybe make a project: start a story, or drawing, or painting, or paper sculptures, anything that distracts you and makes you feel productive. Maybe try to grow some plants. Throw yourself into that hobby or hobbies.
All humans need socializing, yes, but you don't need all those specific people. You can survive; I know it sounds impossible, but you don't need their approval, you don't need to hang out with them at every single opportunity. Find other activities and occasions to look forward to that don't involve them.
Their influence on you is part of what is not letting you move on, and it's going to be painful, and look impossible, but you need to start cutting ties, even if it's little by little, with all those people that have made you so dependent on them.
Re: Welp
(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 01:02 am (UTC)(link)Re: Welp
(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 01:16 am (UTC)(link)You're welcome! I have faith in you. ♥♥♥