fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #2012 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]

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[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]

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[America's next top Model]

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[Common Law]

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[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]

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[the bachelorette]

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[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]

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11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]

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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]

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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]

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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]

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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]

16. [WARNING for suicide]

[Park Yong Ha]

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17. [WARNING for abuse]

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18. [WARNING for abuse]

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19. [WARNING for rape]

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20. [WARNING for incest]

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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]

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The last thing I want to hear is how "awesome" i am, believe me. I can't post this on tumblr because real life friends follow me there, and I just needed to type all that out and put it somewhere other people would see it because I just needed to tell someone this, and last time someone said it wasn't a problem if i continued posting here. if it's annoying, i'll stop. there's nothing else i need to say anyway.
to be perfectly honest, while i do feel bad about being annoying here, i'd much rather bother random internet strangers than bother my mom. i don't know how i could get professional help without my parent's help but if there's a way, i'll try it. I'm not trying to insult therapy and i know it helps a ton of people and i'm not an asshole who thinks it makes you "weak" or whatever, but i don't know if it would help me.

I'm the person who said I wouldn't find it annoying if you posted here. (also, the second replier here!)

I stand by my decision. Vent away! :)

You could always make a different tumblr account and not follow anyone you know, if you want to vent there.

If you don't mind me asking, why do you not want to ask your mom to help you find a therapist?

AYRT

Look, I've had some pretty severe depression/anxiety in my life. You know how I got over it? I talked to people who actually had the power to help me. Like my mom. And a counselor. Are your parents abusive? Would they refuse to take you to a medical doctor to seek aid for your depression? Because the issue here seems to be internal, not external.

I agree. I'm not trying to be callous, but there are only so many times that strangers on the internet can reaffirm that life is worth living and that OP will get past this. OP needs to get help, the kind of help that we are beyond offering. Please OP, if your parents or siblings or other family or authority figures are available to you, then immediately seek their guidance and assistance.

yup and yup to both your questions.
congratulations on getting over your depression :)

Could a teacher help you? Is there a school counselor available that is discreet?

If not, can you leave your house for hours without your parents asking where you're going?

Look in a telephone directory and search for therapists near where you live, and approach one. If they have a secretary or something asking for an appointment, tell them that you had to sneak out of your house and that you don't know if you can do it again, and maybe they can let you in if there is a free time slot or help you make an appointment at a time that you can get out of your house again.

If they personally can't/won't take you for free, they have to know someone they can refer you to that can help you.

Well in that case I will give you some time honored advice: TELL SOMEONE. You mentioned school, so a teacher, maybe?

I get that I was rude before, but it pisses me off to see people who have the ability to help themselves wasting it asking strangers for platitudes. I'm sorry you have a horrible home life, and what seems to you to be a horrible school life, but the best advice anyone can give doesn't mean shit if you don't put it to use.

thanks for the advice. school is over for summer vacation. i've been depressed before and i went to the school guidance counselor and social worker, they were nice but they just tried to put a positive spin on everything and idk i got the vibe that i was annoying them/wasting their time. I started crying and the social worker seemed really flustered, like she'd never seen someone cry before.
i didn't really come for advice although i guess that's what it seemed like. I just wanted to put my feelings out there. idk. i'm sorry if this was the wrong way to go about it.

da

If you have nowhere else to vent / no one to give you feedback, it makes sense that you'd come here.

It sounds to me that the social worker and/or the guidance counselor didn't have much experience, rather than you specifically annoying them.

I started crying and the social worker seemed really flustered, like she'd never seen someone cry before.

She probably hadn't! It's one thing to study/train for counseling, and another one to actually talk face to face with a person who needs the help.

If the social worker was upset, that was their failing, not yours. Next time you have a chance, go back. Use the word abuse. Tell them to help you, because it it their job. Venting is wonderful, but it doesn't have a tangible result.

This. You just told us that you are in an abusive family situation at home, and that your parents refuse to let you/help you find help.

If the counselor/social worker don't help you after you telling them that, than they are awful at their job.

Not to mention that I'm pretty sure that, if OP is American, the social worker or counselor has a legal obligation to report allegations of abuse. It's not even a matter of being good at their job - it's criminal if they don't look into it.

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