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fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
[ SECRET POST #2012 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]
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[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]
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[America's next top Model]
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[Common Law]
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[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]
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[the bachelorette]
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[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]
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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]
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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]
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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]
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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [WARNING for suicide]
[Park Yong Ha]
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17. [WARNING for abuse]
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18. [WARNING for abuse]
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19. [WARNING for rape]
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20. [WARNING for incest]
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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Welp
I lost a friend after 12 years. My best friend, and it was so hard at the time just to get through the day without sobbing. But you do, and then you kind of hit that point you're talking about here. But understand, it will get better. You have to go find people with things you have in common, who treat you right, not like those others from school you've described. Find people you can respect who respect you too.
But you have your whole life ahead of you. *hugs* You will have more friends, and it will get better. There may be parts that sting, and they probably always will because you miss that person. They wouldn't hurt like that if they weren't that important to you. But the heart is resilient and eventually new friends can become just as important, without replacing what that other person meant to you, even if you feel like most of it was fake. Just hang on to what you can appreciate, and use it to grow. Other people's faults are not yours, they are their own.
And if those people are using fandom to push you out, remember that it just reflects poorly on them. A respectable person wouldn't use it against you so long as you aren't trying to tread on them, and making new friends in a shared space is not doing that. You can post to communities if you want. You can talk about and like the things that you want. If they get jealous, think of how petty and insecure that they are. No one's going to think bad of you for being who you want to be, or doing what you want to do.
You can message me if you like. I'm not really anywhere near your age, but I do like Avatar and Harry Potter, or I can just listen if you need someone to talk to.