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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2012 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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04.
[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]


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05.
[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]


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06.
[America's next top Model]


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07.
[Common Law]


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08.
[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]


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09.
[the bachelorette]


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10.
[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]


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11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]



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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]



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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]



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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]














16. [WARNING for suicide]

[Park Yong Ha]


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17. [WARNING for abuse]



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18. [WARNING for abuse]



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19. [WARNING for rape]



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20. [WARNING for incest]



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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: OT

[personal profile] intrigueing 2012-07-07 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
Two things:

1) Being in touch with your emotions is a good thing as long as you have perspective on it and don't let them rule you. Suppressing your emotions, like boys are constantly taught to do by basically every source of information they come in contact with from a very young age, is a bad thing that's quite damaging. Don't think about it as a "girl" thing, think about it as a person thing.

2) Feeling things does not make you a "bitch". It's when you act on your feelings impulsively and later regret those actions that's bad. Feelings come and go, for a variety of different reasons. Try and recognize what you're feeling, how those feelings are affecting you, and especially why you're feeling them in the first place. If you think you're overreacting or being overemotional about a "little" thing, think about what exactly is making you so mad/sad/excited/happy/scared/whatever. It may be more complicated than you think.
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Re: OT

[personal profile] sleepga 2012-07-07 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
1) Yes, I agree. And I always, always go by the fact that emotions are never wrong. Someone actually put it quite nicely in a reply above; the emotions someone feels about a situation is always valid, and therefore not wrong.

2) This is what I'm going to start doing. I usually let my emotions guide my thinking while at the same time trying to get rid of them, and I know that's a big no no. I'm really glad I came here for help. Thank youuu