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fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
[ SECRET POST #2012 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]
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[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]
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[America's next top Model]
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[Common Law]
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[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]
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[the bachelorette]
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[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]

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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]

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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]

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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]

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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [WARNING for suicide]

[Park Yong Ha]
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17. [WARNING for abuse]

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18. [WARNING for abuse]

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19. [WARNING for rape]

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20. [WARNING for incest]

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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]

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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: OT
(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 04:31 am (UTC)(link)I think phrasing it as if OP is "wrong" is not quite the right way. Because the emotions someone feels about a situation is always valid, and therefore not wrong.
But pinpointing why someone bothers you and then working to either communicate that in a way the other person understands so the situation won't repeat itself (as in, there is no blame and no one is "wrong") is definitely the right way to do it.
Re: OT
(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 05:40 am (UTC)(link)I meant "wrong" as in losing control because of it, not as in, you are not allowed to feel and get angry or sad, etc.. Sorry, I should have worded that differently, and I'm probably thinking of another word that isn't "wrong", but I don't know what it would be. :(