[ SECRET POST #2018 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2018 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Dragon Age: Origins]


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03.
[Buffy the Vampire Slayer/Mark Watches]


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04.
[KingKiller Chronicle]


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05.
[Ben-to]


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06.
[The Binding of Isaac]


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07.
[Fantastic Four]


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08.
[Dragon Age 2; Team Fortress 2]


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09.
[Highlander: The Series]


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10.
[Kristen Stewart and Charlize Theron]


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11.
[X-Men: First Class]


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12.
[Doctor Who]


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13.
[Sly Cooper/Ratchet & Clank]


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14.
[Avengers]


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15.
[Jay Smooth]


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16.
[Avengers, James Bond]


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17.
[Brokeback Mountain]


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18.
[X-Men movies]


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19.
[The Dark Knight]


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20.
[Star Wars]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 022 secrets from Secret Submission Post #288.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[kelincihutan]

I'm not sure how much of this secret to believe, but on the chance that it is true...

You are absolutely right that what you are describing is a totally unhealthy level of possessiveness. This person sounds dangerous and unstable and there is no predicting where someone like that will turn to next. The first chance you have, you should leave, as fast and as far as possible. Don't explain yourself beforehand or give any indication of your plans. In fact, continue as normal until you're ready to go. And then, get out.

[anonimaus]

Agree. This sounds like a situation that could have a major Bad End.

[(Anonymous)]

Second this. I recently ended a relationship with a guy when I realized how violent and volatile he could be. He never did anything to physically threaten me but he got in bar fights pretty much every weekend (and usually wouldn't tell me about them because he 'didn't want to worry me') and was rather emotionally and mentally abusive. Hurting someone in self-defense is one thing but for someone to go out of there way to cause harm to another off something as trivial as name calling or flirting is a giant red flag. Not to mention if he's the one instigating it, like my guy was.

Trust me, you'll be better off and much happier without someone like that in your life.

[(Anonymous)]

There's nothing in the secret about beating someone up for flirting. Something about someone "laying a hand on" the secret maker, which could have been flirting but just as likely could have been violent.

[diet_poison]

Or it could have been an unwanted sexual pass, in which case...yeah he overreacted but I wouldn't blame a guy for getting defensive.

Not excusing his behavior ofc.

[(Anonymous)]

My bad. But from the way its worded in the secret it doesn't sound like it was a violent action. If it had been, the guy would have been justified for standing up for her. Sounds more like it was a sexual pass.

[diet_poison]

An unwanted sexual pass is basically the same thing as a "violent action" (whatever you thought that was). Yes, I'm serious. It is 100% not okay.

[elaminator]

This. OP says he's not crazy, but it also sounds like they're trying to excuse his behavior because of love. They also admit to being afraid of him and include details about violent and seriously unstable and troubling behavior. All of those things are red flags, and it sounds like a big part of the OP already realizes this relationship is not healthy in any way, shape or form, and that they need to leave it.

What an anon below said: you liked him to The Joker. If that ain't disturbing, I don't know what is.