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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-15 03:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #2021 ]


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Re: Dealing WIth Someone Mentally Unhealthy

[personal profile] biohazardgirl 2012-07-16 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Hello OP!

Yikes, this is a rough situation. As a bipolar person myself I would like to say of the posters below who say 'try to reason with her' is that that's bad advice. If you've told her that you don't want the dollhouse and she keeps calling you anyway and her facebook statuses make no sense and she's in a mental hospital than this is a person who might not have the capacity to be reasoned with anymore. If you don't want her coming over, answer her next call and say you don't want her there, but I wouldn't expect it of her to listen to you at all. If she shows up and she doesn't seem lucid or she can't be reasoned with, call an ambulance, if she gets violent, don't hesitate to call the police. Take care of yourself first. When she comes down (if she is a decent person) she will be grateful that you took care of her and got her help and (if she was getting violent) she will be grateful that you didn't allow her to hurt anyone. She needs to be on medication, and you need to take care of your family first.

I sound very harsh, but really, reasoning with mania is the absolute worst idea in the world, and mania can really be very dangerous and destructive to the sufferer and to the people surrounding the bipolar person. Good luck, OP.