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Well, speaking from my own experience (note: may not apply to you but it's the only situation I know) I'd say that if you have nothing to replace it with and you do not want to quit, I would not recommend giving it up. Self harming is an addiction and if you do not really want to quit, it's likely that it won't work. I managed to cut it down mostly - first by smoking, then with music - but I still have relapses and I have been trying very hard.
Uhm, I really hope this doesn't sound like I'm encouraging you or something. I don't mean it that way. I just remember, from my own situation, that at times self harming was the only reason I could deal with stuff while still making sure I'd see the next day, and that somewhat justifies continuing, if you ask me. It does completely depend on your situation, though.
(Am I making sense? It's 8am here and I just came home from working a night shift.)

You're making complete sense. Thank you for the advice.

You've hit on why I feel bad about doing it though, because I KNOW it is an addiction, whenever I do it I give myself the same excuses as addicts from movies and books and stuff and it feels like one so I feel that I SHOULD quit. . .but also it's really really effective at getting me back in line. I just wasn't really sure if it counted as 'harmless' or not I guess.

Now scurry on off to bed :)

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