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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-17 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2023 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-17 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not you, it's him/them.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-18 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
IT's possible the spouse put a stop to it. I had a co-worker I used to text on a fairly day to day basis - he boy, me girl - about nonsense and work related things. It never got inappropriate. This went on for about two or so months. Then one day I texted him something about why he hadn't wanted to go to lunch (a group of us had gone out to lunch that day but he chose not to), and he never answered me. He also got decidedly colder at work around me.

I found out later he'd been getting inappropriately close to one of his wife's BFFs and she found out. So I guessed that texting me, however innocent, was a casuality of the fall out.

Sometimes it's nothing you did, but that you were caught in a fall-out of something else going on. It's a bitch, but unless you turn into a stalker or something, there's not a lot you can do about it.