[ SECRET POST #2023 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2023 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 066 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Comments

[checkerblob.livejournal.com]

With the texts: sometimes when I get a really nice message from someone on tumblr, I'll want to write a really nice response back, and I'll get all perfectionisty about saying it exactly right and put off writing it and then I realize "oh, crap, I never responded" but by then it's just awkward.... maybe that happened with the first text that went without a reply, and the "cold" response for the birthday one was just an attempt by him to reply quickly and get that done with because he didn't want to leave you hanging again? Sometimes short and sweet in text-land can come across as cold. His behavior was rude, but you didn't seem to have done anything wrong so I wouldn't feel at fault. Or like other commenters have said, maybe he was interested in you and did intend it ~that way (which is upsetting if he's married, of course, but it does happen), or he didn't but his spouse did?

I'm sorry it's made it hard for you to listen to their stuff, though. I'm someone whose enjoyment of things is often marred by awkward/unpleasant experiences, so I get it, but I hope you're able to listen to your favorite band's music again :)

[othellia]

sometimes when I get a really nice message from someone on tumblr, I'll want to write a really nice response back, and I'll get all perfectionisty about saying it exactly right and put off writing it and then I realize "oh, crap, I never responded" but by then it's just awkward

I am totally the same way. I don't think it's what's going on here, but it is possible.