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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-17 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2023 ⌋

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cassandraoftroy: Chiana from Farscape, an alien with grayscale skin and hair (Default)

Re: friendship troubles...

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2012-07-18 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
If you and this person consider each other friends, and there are topics that she wants to avoid, then she at least owes you the courtesy of saying, "I'd rather not get into that issue, please; let's change the subject." Straight-up ignoring the things you say to her and then pretending the conversation never happened is just plain rude. If she doesn't want to talk about homosexuality or whatever else with you, that's fine, but there's a difference between asking to avoid the topic, and sticking her fingers in her ears and going, "la la la I can't hear you" -- which is the equivalent of what she's doing.

Re: friendship troubles...

(Anonymous) 2012-07-18 10:51 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah this. The friend is coming off as way more immature here than the OP. I can't believe other people's responses in calling the OP rude, when the OP seems to be a pretty nice person.
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Re: friendship troubles...

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-07-18 01:36 pm (UTC)(link)
This. I'm surprised that people seem to think blowing someone off like the friend is doing is ok. If said friend doesn't want to talk about something, they owe it to the conversation partner to plainly state, "I don't want to talk about [x]".