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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-17 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2023 ⌋

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cassandraoftroy: Donna Noble making a skeptical face (skeptical)

Re: friendship troubles...

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2012-07-18 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Ignoring someone in the middle of a conversation, and then lying to their face about having "lost half the email" isn't the sort of thing someone does if they ~respect you and value their relationship with you~. If they actually respect you, they'll say, "I'm not comfortable with that topic, let's please take the conversation somewhere else.

The OP hasn't said that ze seeks out topics that the friend is uncomfortable with, but when they come up organically in conversation, the friend starts ignoring hir for days and pretends the entire discussion never happened. That's a shitty way to treat a friend, and doesn't suggest anything like respect on the friend's part. It's not about "getting the answer you want" -- it's about wanting to be treated like a person and a friend, rather than having someone pretend you don't exist when they don't like your opinions.