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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-19 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2025 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2025 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Pokemon Special]


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[Avengers/Thor]

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[Two Men in a Trench]


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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 024 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: I just really really need to vent

(Anonymous) 2012-07-19 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't cry when my grandparents died, and I loved them a lot. We were very close, actually. I mean, I missed them when they were gone, but I'm not even sure if I was sad about them dying. They were good people and I cared about them and all...

I don't know, we all cry and mourn different things. I know I've cried about many things I maybe shouldn't have cried about and then didn't cry when everyone else is upset. It's weird being the odd person out.

I think your mother and the hospice worker are too busy grieving to think that other people might not feel the same way. This is a natural reaction of theirs, I think, but it's very unfair to you.

You're not wrong, nor terrible, for not crying or feeling upset.

You really, truly are okay. You're not a bad person. Your feelings are okay. They just don't understand. And that's understandable. It's human. Feelings aren't quite as simple as people like to think they are.

As long as you remember your grandfather with respect and fondness, I think that you're doing okay.