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fandomsecrets2012-07-19 06:37 pm
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Re: I just really really need to vent
(Anonymous) 2012-07-19 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)I don't know, we all cry and mourn different things. I know I've cried about many things I maybe shouldn't have cried about and then didn't cry when everyone else is upset. It's weird being the odd person out.
I think your mother and the hospice worker are too busy grieving to think that other people might not feel the same way. This is a natural reaction of theirs, I think, but it's very unfair to you.
You're not wrong, nor terrible, for not crying or feeling upset.
You really, truly are okay. You're not a bad person. Your feelings are okay. They just don't understand. And that's understandable. It's human. Feelings aren't quite as simple as people like to think they are.
As long as you remember your grandfather with respect and fondness, I think that you're doing okay.