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fandomsecrets2012-07-19 06:37 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-07-19 06:37 pm
[ SECRET POST #2025 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2025 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 024 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Re: I just really really need to vent
When my maternal grandmother died (and she had been doing badly, so it wasn't unexpected), I just felt a little sad. I saw her much more often than you saw your grandfather, but I still felt like I should have reacted more. I think we were all more relieved than anything that she was no longer suffering.
When my paternal grandmother died, I cried. We were much closer even if I didn't see her as often. I sniffled a bit after my mother told me the news and once I was alone in the shower I all-out bawled.
But really, it all depends on how you react to big events. So yes, it's normal if you don't feel anything. I can see why your mother might be upset that you're not reacting if she herself is grieving, even though she should not be accusing you of anything.