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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-19 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2025 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2025 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Skins]


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[Pokemon Special]


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[Avengers/Thor]

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[Team Fortress 2]


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[Lee Pace]


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[Supernatural]


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[Beatles]


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[CSI: Miami]


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[Two Men in a Trench]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 024 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
tasogare_n_hime: (snape headdesk)

Re: I just really really need to vent

[personal profile] tasogare_n_hime 2012-07-20 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry for your families loss, and I completely understand how you feel. There's nothing wrong with the way you are reacting. Everyone deals with loss differently no mater how close they were to the one they lost.

I never had a really close relationship with any of my grandparents, who are all gone now. None of their deaths really affected me other than being kind of sad...When my Great grandmother died, who I really didn't know from Eve, and I was still in school I managed to make my self cry and get out of P.E. for a day.. I was horrible kid.

When my older brother died, I was upset, and it did affect me a lot. I apparently didn't show it in the way that was expected. Probably because I brought my own boxes of tissues, and spent a lot of time handing tissues out as needed. The funeral home we used had tissues like sandpaper, I remembered that from a funeral I'd gone to there before. I figured the day sucked already the last thing people needed was sore noses. I also spent a lot of time looking after Mom, who was completely destroyed by his death, and has never recovered from it. This has apparently lead a lot of people to believe I didn't give a fuck that he died.