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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-19 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2025 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2025 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Skins]


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[Pokemon Special]


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[Avengers/Thor]

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[Team Fortress 2]


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[Lee Pace]


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[Supernatural]


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[Beatles]


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[CSI: Miami]


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[Two Men in a Trench]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 024 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: I just really really need to vent

(Anonymous) 2012-07-20 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
They tell me I should be upset. I should be crying. I should feel bad that my grandfather is gone, and I am a horrible person and a horrible daughter for not being any of these.

Everyone's grief is different.
You should NOT feel ashamed for not mourning in the same way as others, or in the way people expect you to. You're not a horrible person or a horrible daughter. And they should not be making you feel guilty for not crying.
And if you don't feel like grieving, that's okay.

(It's funny that way... when a close family friend died, I felt nothing, yet when my high school teacher who I didn't know that well died, I couldn't stop bawling at her funeral.)