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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-20 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2026 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2026 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Breaking Bad]


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[Victorious]


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[The Road to El Dorado]


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[NU'EST / Minhyun - EXO-K / Kai - B1A4 / CNU]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Legend of Korra]


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09. http://i.imgur.com/r96OK.png
[linked for porny, illustrated, Joker/Oracle]


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13. [SPOILER WARNING for Pokemon Special/Adventures Ruby/Sapphire arc]



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14. [SPOILER WARNING for Iron Man 3]



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15. [SPOILER WARNING for NCIS]



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16. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con]

[Power Rangers Dino Thunder]


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17. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]

[touhou project]


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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[Tomb Raider]


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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for image is of Katie Holmes getting ?? violently choked maybe]
http://i.imgur.com/ZZ3AQ.png


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[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-07-21 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
I can't help but think how helpful and cathartic that kind of awareness and storyline would be for male rape victims who feel ashamed and unable to report their attack.

I mean they did cover that. But only with a gay superhero. Like your sexual orientation matters to your attacker. I can't help but feel that the implication that rape only happens to women and gay men is only making the situation worse for straight men who don't feel it's acceptable to acknowledge what happened to them because it's somehow their fault.

And I forgot about Shado raping Ollie. But that was not part of his origin story or his motivation for anything and they definitely waffled on whether or not it was rape.
Edited 2012-07-21 02:33 (UTC)
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[personal profile] fenm 2012-07-21 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, Apollo from The Authority. [rolls eyes]

And, yeah, while I was being sarcastic, if handled right, it could be helpful.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-07-21 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
I get where you were coming from but I started thinking about your comment seriously and went a little OT. Sorry!

(Anonymous) 2012-07-21 11:32 am (UTC)(link)
Go cry moar.

IDGAF about men and /their/ problems with rape. They are responsible for the rape culture that exists and causes all this damage. They are responsible for the vast, VAST majority of the most harmful kinds of rape and abuse that exists in this world. They are responsible for the specific horrible abuse that we are actually talking about in this thread, and we're supposed to stop and think about how /They/ feel about it? How it affects them? FUCK. THAT

Tl;Dr: Stop derailing and trivializing this real issue with your "Wont Somebody think of the menz" bullshit.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-07-21 11:58 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. I did not mean it at all like that. I don't see how my comment came across like that.

I read a comment about how men's origin stories never include sexual assault as a motivational aspect and it made me think about the positive effect that could have on both male and female survivors. Which made me realize that there is a different story to be told considering the topic which just makes the fact that they're doing yet another "woman motivated by sexual assault" trope all that more tired and frustrating. Let's be honest the idea that rape happens to "other" people for "reasons" that don't apply to "most people" is one of the biggest problems we have in opening dialogues about it.

I also fail to see how men being "vastly" responsible for rape and abuse means that I can't feel sympathetic and concerned for those who suffer from it. I never said women were responsible to provide support and resources or consider how rape effects men. In fact considering that most comic book authors are men I was expressing shame that men aren't taking advantage of a great resource to help male (and ostensibly female) rape victims.

And if you could point out where I trivialized anything please let me know.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-22 09:06 am (UTC)(link)
Kill yourself.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-22 02:20 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Yes, because ONLY women get raped, and ONLY men are ever the perpetrators of rape/sexual assault... and we should NEVER show sympathy for any man who is raped, ever, just because rape is ALL MEN'S FAULT.

smh.

Men are raped and sexually assaulted much more often than people believe, and so many are afraid to admit it and try to get help because of people like you. Rape is devastating no matter what gender the victim is. So kindly, fuck right off.