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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-22 03:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #2028 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2028 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-22 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
This.

20s is always an uncertain time, and starting off your career takes luck, as well as grit and skill. Starting off your career *now* even more so.

Getting out and doing something is great advice, whether it's work, volunteering, or clubs and society. It will take courage--possibly a lot of courage in your situation--but no matter what it is, it'll give you some skills, and after the first few weeks those skills will start to give you some confidence. It may be a tiny amount of confidence at first, and it may be fragile, but small things can be built on.

Also, be gentle with yourself if/when you get discouraged. It's easy to judge yourself when you fall short of society's standards, but try to give yourself the kind of encouragement you'd give someone you loved if they were in your situation.