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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-22 03:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #2028 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2028 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-22 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't "need to get over it," and anyone who tells you that you do is a massive shithead. It's okay to be sad and angry and to grieve, even for a long time. I do hope you realize, though, that it was not your fault. You were a year old, and you didn't ask to exist. Regardless of whether your mother did it because of something she felt about you, it was not your fault.

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You don't "need to get over it," and anyone who tells you that you do is a massive shithead. It's okay to be sad and angry and to grieve, even for a long time. I do hope you realize, though, that it was not your fault. You were a year old, and you didn't ask to exist. Regardless of whether your mother did it because of something she felt about you, it was not your fault.

<Hugs!>

(Anonymous) 2012-07-23 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
You don't "need to get over it," and anyone who tells you that you do is a massive shithead

This so much. I hate it when people tell others who went through traumatic events to just 'get over it'. It's not like a bloody break up or something where its (most of the time) not a big deal and you're just sad for a time. It is incredibly insensitive to tell someone who has been through something that traumatic to just get over it.

I once had a friend that I admitted being molested to and that it sometimes made me uncomfortable around other girls (I was molested by a girl). His response was, "Sounds like that's something you need to get over with". I pretty much stopped being friends with him after that.