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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-25 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2031 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2031 ⌋

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Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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ooh_mrdarcy: gay police (Default)

Re: Need some advice...

[personal profile] ooh_mrdarcy 2012-07-26 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Just say you're not comfortable discussing about other people's sex lives (or yours). If you need to, tell them it's not them, it's you; they'll leave you alone. If they won't, they're officially socially awkward and you're allowed to go off on them.

You have every right to voice your opinions on this matter - don't worry about upsetting others, because clearly they don't worry about upsetting you. Did they ever ask you if you were comfortable with this sort of thing? No. Did they ever ask you if you wanted to talk about sex? No. They just assumed.

You don't need to complain to get your point across, but you definitely need to set some ground rules.