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F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)

Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

i had all this shit written up here but decided that no1curr about my tl;dr
(and then i started writing this again and it became tl;dr yet AGAIN)

so BASICALLY, i'm my bf's second serious relationship (he's my first) and ours is already longer than that one was. but he's fucked dozens of girls before that (i "fucked" (read: literally just lost my virginity to) somebody a few months before we met)

but lately i just can't fucking stop thinking about her. what was it like for him with her? was it better (before it ended, obviously), was it sweeter? more loving? was he more romantic with her? was the sex better? was it more passionate (quite sure about this)? how much did she mean to him? did he say/plan the same things with her as with me?


gah. i just wish i could stop. i know that, realistically, the fact itself that they broke up means that it wasn't good enough, same as with how we've been together for much longer than they were. okay and this is where i started going majorly tl;dr again but anyway. yeah

[(Anonymous)]

You're going to ruin your relationship if you keep thinking this way. Let it goooooooo.

[(Anonymous)]

no1curr

[(Anonymous)]

Please stop being creepy girlfriend

[(Anonymous)]

gurl. it's in the past. he's moved on, you should too!

[(Anonymous)]

you've got to find why you're obsessed with this against your will

do you feel that you're doing something wrong, or that you're not worth him or a good relationship?

I know it's not something easily or quickly done, but if you fix the root of all this, the thoughts should stop

[(Anonymous)]

It's different.

Not necessarily better or worse, more or less. Just different. Just like, if the two of you ever break up, your next relationship with someone else will be different, without having to be better or worse, more or less. Every time you fall in love, it's different. The feelings are different, the sex is different, your plans are different. Trying to do comparisons is not just a waste of time, it's literally impossible. It's just different, that's all.

[(Anonymous)]

You'll drive yourself crazy thinking about that stuff. I know because I've been there. Coincidentally it was also when sex was fairly new to me and I was in a serious relationship with a partner that had slept with more people than me. Everyone's got a past before they met you and you've got a past before meeting him. It's best not to think about it if that kind of stuff bothers you. Just know that his past (as well as yours) have shaped you to be the person you are today and that it helps you to be a better partner by learning from past mistakes.