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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-29 12:11 pm

[ Anon Meme ]

F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 11:12 am (UTC)(link)
You'll drive yourself crazy thinking about that stuff. I know because I've been there. Coincidentally it was also when sex was fairly new to me and I was in a serious relationship with a partner that had slept with more people than me. Everyone's got a past before they met you and you've got a past before meeting him. It's best not to think about it if that kind of stuff bothers you. Just know that his past (as well as yours) have shaped you to be the person you are today and that it helps you to be a better partner by learning from past mistakes.