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F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)

Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

Comments

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

I tell everyone because I like flying solo. I get to focus on me and only I can make me happy. I shouldn't, and don't want to, depend on another person to make me happy. I think it's a little sad that you need to depend on another human being to be happy. What happens if they disappoint? If they leave? If they betray? If I'm sad, I need to find my own solutions to make me feel better, not ask or wait for someone else to do it.

In reality, I was sexually assaulted on the school bus when I was 4, and I shut it out of my memory until a few years ago. I realize that traumatic experience is why I have such conflicting thoughts about guys and why I'm scared to move beyond being friends with straight guys yet wanting their attention and wishing they saw that there was more to me at the same time.

It's...difficult, and I'm too scared to seek therapy for it. I have this irrational fear of everyone judging me, even on things that were/are out of my control.

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

A good therapist would never judge a patient for something that was so beyond their control, especially as a child! And if they did, that means that they are a shitty therapist AND a shitty person on top of it, so see if you can report them to the corresponding authority (if you live somewhere where this is a possibility).

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

I've never visited them myself, but I know there are online communities for support. You could ask for recommendations here if you don't feel comfortable seeking therapy irl.

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

may I give you a hug? I want to give you a hug

*hugs*