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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-29 12:11 pm

[ Anon Meme ]

F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Sometimes it just takes a long time. I was 27 before I ever had a serious relationship, and even then it took a while before I realised that yes, this was proabably love that I was feeling.

I'm not sure it's possible for us to compare what we feel for real and fictional people, because you can give your emotions to a fictional person without having to worry about any real-life kind of concequences. Does that make sense?

In any case, you may very well meet someone yet, just give it time. It seems to me that it's usually when you stop worrying about it that something happens. That's what it was like for me, anyway. Have you heard the song "I just haven't met you yet"? It made my life seem a little better when I was worried about never having a relationship with anyone.