[ SECRET POST #2037 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2037 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Attractiveness, has almost no bearing on ability to find romance. You have to do 2 things, and 2 things only:

Bathe. You should smell clean, but preferably not buried in perfume.

Interact with human beings. Seriously, the fugliest people I've ever met in my life had fiances, because they did social things that allowed them to have conversations with other people.

[thene]

^ this. Get out and meet people, do a sport or a class or a hobby, talk to people, make friends, and let chemistry happen. Serious relationships are not about looking like a movie star.

[(Anonymous)]

It drives me nuts, "Oh, why am I alone?" Because you're doing absolutely nothing to interact with people, except maybe gazing at them longingly, until they get creeped out.

The key to being attractive is not being needy and clingy.

[(Anonymous)]

this is so so so true.

[(Anonymous)]

+1

I'd add one more thing: Think seriously about what your own standards for physical attraction are (and anything else, for that matter). I know plenty of non-conventionally attractive women who have found love, but for the most part the men they are dating don't look like Brad Pitt. Which is okay! They are happy and love each other and are attracted to each other anyway. But it's important not to be too limited when deciding who to give a chance.

[quinnzel]

First part? It really depends on the person... some of us are (admittedly) a bit shallow. It absolutely matters to me that I find my significant other attractive as well as interesting and romantically compatible. Can't have one without the other and it's not worth settling to me.

I definitely agree with your tips though. You have to put the effort in to actually find somebody.