[ SECRET POST #2037 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2037 ⌋

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Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Yes.

It's all really awful objectifying, degrading, and humiliating stuff, and a fixation on rape.

Makes me feel like a terrible feminist (yes I know omg but feminism is about *~choice~*, disagree and not the argument I want to get into here).

I would be mortified if anyone knew, and I've only shared with a tiny number of bfs, and in completely anon settings. Don't even like it being tied to a handle on sites I infrequently use.

[childings.livejournal.com]

Well, I don't have a rape kink but I like it when dudes are objectifying and creepy and... forceful I guess? I also like to read stories about het couples where the guy is much older (even if the other partner is a teenage girl, this is what I mean by "psych profile" because it makes sense given my past experiences but it's not exactly something you want anyone IRL to find out about), all of this comes off as making me look like a bad feminist and I guess I do kinda like to be more submissive sexually but NOT in a relationship, just when it comes to the sexual aspect. I think there's a huge difference there and people get confused (and sometimes the the sexual part of a relationship and other parts can blur/overlap so it gets confusing maybe). It's been bothering me forever because this is a big part of a project I've been working on for most of my adult life but I'm too embarrassed to portray that kind of relationship because of what people will think of me, think I'm trying to promote rape or whatever. I have trouble getting thoughts across but a big thing I wanted to do with this story is show how it's OKAY to have these kinks and it doesn't make you a bad feminist and it doesn't make the guy an asshole

I also don't really feel like I'm monogamous either

I've also been thinking about this because of a lot of shit I keep reading online (ok mostly on tumblr) along the lines of "it doesn't matter if it's fiction, fiction can still influence people negatively blah blah" even though IMO if people read or watch something fictional and take something from that, either they can't distinguish between the two or something they read/watched resonated with them for personal reasons that they need to address. I just feel really ashamed about everything I guess

IDEK I just have a lot of ... feelings this evening, sorry for rambling

[(Anonymous)]

Me too.

I don't feel like a terrible feminist over it, but I do keep it between me and whoever I'm sleeping with. I don't want to be in the kink community, I don't want to be a lifestyle submissive, I just want to get degraded and then fucked into the floor.

[childings.livejournal.com]

Yeah there's that too, that there are subcultures that pop up around certain kinks that I don't want to be a part of at all

And as far as polyamory goes, most people just assume that means swinging and that grosses me out, I just want to meet a random dude somewhere and do it with him and then never see him/have any contact with him ever again (I've only done this twice). I think it's easier to pull this off if you're a man