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fandomsecrets2012-07-31 07:03 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-07-31 07:03 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #2037 ⌋
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Seriously, first off, I agree with everyone on the thread: Ben may not be 'conventionally' movie star attractive, but if you saw him on the street I guarantee you would find him striking/interesting looking in some way. Likewise, if we're talking "Sherlock", I'm sure in universe people also find him very striking, both for his looks and for his unique personality & extreme intelligence. Usually in fic his looks are praised, so you've already got one thing wrong about your statement.
NEXT, who died and gave you the right to piss all over other peoples' happiness? Saying other people don't deserve happiness just because you're unhappy is a really shitty thing to do.
Finally, look, I'm not conventionally attractive. I don't wear makeup and I don't put product in my hair or do anything other than brush it and I don't pay attention to what I'm wearing half of the time and I'm not obese, but I'm not a stick either. Usually, people even mistake me for being about twelve years old. I have still managed to find several boyfriends over the past couple of years. Go out and meet people and stop having a shite attitude and there will be boys that will like you despite of 'how unattractive you are.'
Edit: I realize that I sound a bit insensitive towards your low self esteem, and I'm sorry that you feel that way because I did at one point in time also. I just think you should maybe try to not be unhappy about other peoples' happinesses and go out there and try to not let your feelings or inadequacy bother you.
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