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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-04 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2041 ]


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Re: Dating question

(Anonymous) 2012-08-05 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Be up-front with her about the fact that you're new at this and that you're uneasy about commitment/intimacy. If she goes into this thinking everything is okay and that gets sprung on her later, she could be really hurt.

Maybe also try to figure out what, specifically, scares you about that sort of closeness with someone -- especially since it's something you also want on some level. Sometimes we build up things in our heads a lot bigger and scarier than they really are, and taking an honest and objective look at the object of our fears can help.