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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-07 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2044 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2044 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge/Perfect Girl Evolution]


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[Suits]


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[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge]


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[Sherlock BBC]


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[Homestuck]


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[Sherlock]


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[Stargate Atlantis]


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[Cyborg 009]


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[The Amazing Spiderman]


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[Stargate Universe]


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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


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[Bunheads/Game of Thrones]


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[thesyndicateproject (youtube)]


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[Codex Alera]


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[Wishbone]


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[The Game OverThinker]


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[K-ON!]


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[Magical Diary]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #292.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Re: Is this emotionally abusive, or am I just over-reacting? TMI Btw

[personal profile] stainless 2012-08-08 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
IF you want an answer, with no sugar: Yes, this is abusive behavior, and yes, I think you should get out.

But if you don't: Even if it's not, what does it matter what someone labels it? Your boyfriend is saying cruel things to you and, when you reveal that you are hurt, saying you're overreacting. Is that the kind of relationship you want? In good relationships, if you say "that is really upsetting me and I'm not okay with it" the other person will respect you. If it's something they can't stop doing, they'll be honest and you'll break up... which is sad, yeah, but it's respectful.

Someone who responds to "I really need you to stop that, it's not okay with me" with "You have a problem, then" does not deserve to be dating.