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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-07 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2044 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2044 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge/Perfect Girl Evolution]


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[Suits]


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[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge]


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[Sherlock BBC]


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[Homestuck]


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08.
[Sherlock]


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[Stargate Atlantis]


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10.
[Cyborg 009]


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[The Amazing Spiderman]


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12.
[Stargate Universe]


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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


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[Bunheads/Game of Thrones]


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[thesyndicateproject (youtube)]


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[Codex Alera]


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[Wishbone]


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[The Game OverThinker]


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[K-ON!]


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[Magical Diary]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #292.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Is this emotionally abusive, or am I just over-reacting? TMI Btw

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-08-08 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
Any one of those paragraphs are enough for me to say you aren't overreacting.

That is slut shaming. He can't claim that his behavior is your fault no matter what you do. And the suicide threats are emotionally manipulative, abusive and cruel. Try imagining doing that to someone you loved and cared about just to get your way. The very idea would probably horrify you.

The fact that he tries to manipulate you into doing things you aren't comfortable with says a lot. Mainly that he isn't interested in your well-being if he doesn't get something out of it. You are definitely not overreacting.

Also do people really claim they can't do something just because they didn't know there was a word for it before? I don't even... What?