[ SECRET POST #2044 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2044 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.
[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge/Perfect Girl Evolution]


__________________________________________________



03.
[Suits]


__________________________________________________



04.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


__________________________________________________



05.
[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge]


__________________________________________________



06.
[Sherlock BBC]


__________________________________________________



07.
[Homestuck]


__________________________________________________



08.
[Sherlock]


__________________________________________________



09.
[Stargate Atlantis]


__________________________________________________



10.
[Cyborg 009]


__________________________________________________



11.
[The Amazing Spiderman]


__________________________________________________



12.
[Stargate Universe]


__________________________________________________



13.
[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


__________________________________________________



14.
[Bunheads/Game of Thrones]


__________________________________________________



15.
[thesyndicateproject (youtube)]


__________________________________________________



16.
[Codex Alera]


__________________________________________________



17.
[Wishbone]


__________________________________________________



18.
[The Game OverThinker]


__________________________________________________



19.
[K-ON!]


__________________________________________________



20.
[Magical Diary]


__________________________________________________








Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #292.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Is this emotionally abusive, or am I just over-reacting? TMI Btw

[(Anonymous)]

About two years ago I was in a relationship almost exactly like the one you're describing, OP, and all I can tell you is get the fuck out and never look back. And I mean a complete break, as in no contact for a long, long time. No "we can still be friends," or "maybe in six months we can try again;" simply say "No more" and leave.

I know, that sounds incredibly harsh, and you're worried that if you leave him abruptly with no support, he may end up harming himself or others. But--and I can't stress this enough--if he is truly depressed and suicidal, or has such a intense resentment to a single incident like your relationship with your ex: you cannot help him by staying with him. These are problems serious enough to warrant professional intervention. The best thing you can do is put him on the path to getting that help and then remove yourself from the situation because it has become toxic for both of you.

It took me months, and support from some wonderful friends, for me to realize that the relationship I was in was destructive and painful and I needed to get out. It took many more and two failed break-up attempts before I was able to put my foot down, tell him in no uncertain terms that we were no longer friends and cut off all communication. It was one of the hardest things I've done, and I thought I would feel terrible for a long time afterward. But I haven't regretted it for a second.

Ending the relationship is the best thing you can do at this point.