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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-09 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2046 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2046 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
"As a man who was guilted into giving his viginity by a young girl..."

"She came onto me officer!"

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
Reading comprehension fail.


As a someone who was guilted into giving her virginity away to a younger man

He was younger yeah, but we were still both teenagers. In fact, I'm a still a teenager, and I'm a CONSENSUAL relationship with a man 10 years my senior.

People like you will condemn a healthy, loving relationship because of an age gap, but ignore when I was forced into sex with another (albeit a year or so younger) teenager.

Classy. Real classy.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
And being "guilted into" is not being forced. Stop this crap now.

You being both teenagers is okay. You and the pedo are not. It's not because of an age gap. It's because you are a minor and he is a fucking GROWN-ASS MAN and it's illegal.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
I have breasts, hips, I menstruate. For all intensive purposes I am fully-developed female physically. How is being attracted to that pedophilia exactly?

And guess what, I initiated the relationship, I choose to be with him. I choose to have sex with him and I ENJOYED IT.
And you have the audacity to tell me that I'm wrong? That I don't know what I want? Or what I'm doing? I have enough of brain to argue my fucking position, don't I?

How dare you try to censor and deny my sexuality.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I have breasts, hips, I menstruate. For all intensive purposes I am fully-developed female physically.

You are aware that there are girls that aren't even 12 who have breasts, hips, and menstruate? Their bodies may be 'fully-developed female physically', but their brains sure as fuck aren't and that is the shittiest gauge of whether or not someone is grown up and ready for sex with adults ever, and it's certainly a shitty gauge of whether-or-not someone is a pedophile.

The person who should be denying your sexuality is the adult you propositioned. Teenagers are expected to have sexual feelings, and are expected to want to act on them. Adults should fucking know better.

You may know what you want, but you're not an adult and adults should not be getting sexually involved with you, and hey? Guess what? Part of growing up is learning that you can't always get what you want! Which unfortunately you didn't learn in this case because the guy you propositioned is a pervert (but not a pedophile).

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I was trying to make a point about how being attracted to a fully-developed form (male or female) is pretty much the opposite of pedophilia (which is a distinct attraction to prepubescents). That being said, I acknowledge that just because someone is physically developed, doesn't mean that they are ready mentally for sex and what-not.

Honestly, I don't understand why you're being so hostile and unnecessarily volatile. I've managed to have a mature, good discussion with a few others on here.

No matter really, you're just some angry person on the internet. I have the support of my family and boyfriend, and that's what matters. I do appreciate that you have the sense to acknowledge that our relationship is not pedophilia, though.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Just so you know, there's a good handful of countries who have low age of consents, like 12 or 13. It's 16 over here in Canada even.

So yeah, it may or may not be illegal, depending on where you/the other anon is.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
...Anon, age of consent has nothing to do with adult/minor sex.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

The anon in question is a teenager girl having sex with an adult man, correct?

If she is 16, her relationship would be perfectly legal in my country. Thus, my point being that not all teen/adult relationships are illegal depending on the country you live in.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
So? In France, for example, the age of consent is 15. An adult still can't have sex with someone under 18!

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Here, in Canada, an adult can have sex with anyone 16 or older.
Then if you're 14-15 you can have sex with anyone within 5 years (so 20 or younger for a 15 year old).
Then if your 12-13 you can have sex with anyone within 2 years.

So here, adults do very much have perfectly legal sex with those under 18.