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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-14 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2051 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2051 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[To Boldly Flee]


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03.
[Teen Wolf, Supernatural]


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04.
[Community]


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05.
[Gravity Falls]


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06.
[Farscape]


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07.
[Earth 2]


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08.
[Black Butler/Kuroshitsuji]


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09.
[Pokemon]


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10.
[Super Mario Galaxy, Suikoden Tierkreis, Pokemon, 999, Redline, Code Geass and Macross Frontier]


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11.
[Venus Ni Seppun]


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12.
[Brokeback Mountain]


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13.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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14.
[Tatta Hitotsu No Koi]


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15.
[Xena: Warrior Princess]


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16.
[Tom Hiddleston]


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17.
[Figure It Out - Matt Bennett]


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18.
[Dragon Age 2]


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19.
[Teen Wolf]


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20.
[Law & Order: SVU]


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21.
[Benedict Cumberbatch/The Hobbit]


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22.
[Florence Welch/Florence + The Machine]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 088 secrets from Secret Submission Post #293.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-14 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope this doesn't come off as harsh but it's possible they didn't think as much of the friendship as you did. When you're young you don't always think having older friends is a big deal, but older friends often don't take their younger friends very seriously, especially if the age gap is that large.

It's not that you weren't appreciated as a person, it's just that sometimes life experience does make a difference and it's nice to have people closer to your own age to talk to. Even in silly things like fandom it can still be nice to have people your own age.

Don't take this as me saying people shouldn't have friends of all ages, because I have friends both a lot younger and a lot older then me, I'm just trying to explain why maybe there is a distance between you and your old friends.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-15 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
sadly, this

it's no fault of you, op, but unless you find that you have very similar life philosophies, super-compatible personalities and/or a multitude of shared interests beyond the fandom, it's hard to keep friendships even in friends of similar ages; when there is a big age gap the different stages you're going through throw in even more difficulties (school vs work; family you're born into vs a family you might make for yourself; you start having less free time, etc.)

(Anonymous) 2012-08-15 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
*no fault of yours orz

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