fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #2051 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2051 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[To Boldly Flee]

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[Teen Wolf, Supernatural]

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[Community]

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[Gravity Falls]

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[Farscape]

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[Earth 2]

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[Black Butler/Kuroshitsuji]

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[Pokemon]

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[Super Mario Galaxy, Suikoden Tierkreis, Pokemon, 999, Redline, Code Geass and Macross Frontier]

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[Venus Ni Seppun]

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[Brokeback Mountain]

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[A Song of Ice and Fire]

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[Tatta Hitotsu No Koi]

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[Xena: Warrior Princess]

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[Tom Hiddleston]

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[Figure It Out - Matt Bennett]

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[Dragon Age 2]

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[Teen Wolf]

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[Law & Order: SVU]

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[Benedict Cumberbatch/The Hobbit]

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[Florence Welch/Florence + The Machine]

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I'm in an open poly relationship, and I certainly don't get jealous over it, but I am uncomfortable if it's something said to excess.

YES. Just because you have an open and communicative relationship doesn't mean your feelings aren't important. Hell even if a platonic friend was all "unf I'd hit that" every single time they saw some one (fictional or not) I'd be INCREDIBLY uncomfortable. It's rude. Keep that shit to yourself, or you look like a creepy shallow jackass who thinks with his junk. Not only is it "ugh" but it's also a bit scary as a lot of men who talk like this aren't too concerned with things like "consent". NOT SAYING your BF would ever do anything like that of course, but it is part of the reason that sort of stuff makes me personally uncomfortable and even scared.

But OP, your BF is being an asshole. He has very little respect for you from what I'm reading here and if he doesn't grow the hell up you can do better. That's not saying "a new boyfriend will fix your problems", that'd be silly. It's that you deserve some one who understands your insecurities and boundaries and they RESPECT them.

Yes. I have known a couple guys that were just... not exactly with it social skills wise, but the thing was when I said, HEY, this is not okay and here's why, they understood (or asked questions to better understand). Not caring that someone is uncomfortable is a huge problem to me (and honestly, I don't think it matters what the subject is; if someone is uncomfortable, they're uncomfortable).

Your second paragraph, ALL THE WAY.

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