case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-17 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2054 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2054 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14.


__________________________________________________



15.


__________________________________________________



16.


__________________________________________________



17.


__________________________________________________



18.


__________________________________________________



19.


__________________________________________________



20.


__________________________________________________



21.


__________________________________________________



22.


__________________________________________________



23.
[Tracy Beaker Returns/The Dumping Ground]


__________________________________________________














[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
















23. [SPOILERS for Usagi Drop]



__________________________________________________



24. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



__________________________________________________



25. [SPOILERS for XXXholic]



__________________________________________________



26. [SPOILERS for Revenge]



__________________________________________________














[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]



















27. [WARNING for abuse and rape]



__________________________________________________



28. [WARNING for rape]



__________________________________________________



29. [WARNING for rape]



__________________________________________________



30. [WARNING for rape]



__________________________________________________



31. [WARNING for rape]

[American Horror Story]


__________________________________________________



32. [WARNING for rape]

[Sons of Anarchy]


__________________________________________________



33. [WARNING for child abuse]

[08th MS Team]


__________________________________________________



34. [WARNING for suicide]



__________________________________________________



35. [WARNING for gore, animal abuse]

[American Psycho]


__________________________________________________



36. [WARNING for incest]

[Chrono Crusade]


__________________________________________________



37. [WARNING for underage]



__________________________________________________



38. [WARNING for bullying/abuse]



__________________________________________________





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #293.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
ext_157516: (Default)

[identity profile] subarashiine.livejournal.com 2012-08-18 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you 12?
streetcake: (KG- too tired)

[personal profile] streetcake 2012-08-18 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I know. It's not really about that, but more of the attitude that the fact that they don't have sex in general is so weird and alien and they can't comprehend it and think they have a problem that needs to be fixed.

Obviously there will be relationship issues, but the issues I don't wanna see are when outsiders or the LI start telling this ace person how they're sexuality needs to be instead of accepting them the way they are. Especially when it comes to outsiders who aren't affected by this persons lack of sexuality at all.
brooms: (bridget)

[personal profile] brooms 2012-08-18 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
it's offensive as well, since the x-men's whole schtick is that they're a stand in for minorities.
ext_157516: (Default)

[identity profile] subarashiine.livejournal.com 2012-08-18 04:17 pm (UTC)(link)
DEAD FISH EYES
otakugal15: (wat)

[personal profile] otakugal15 2012-08-18 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, there's a 50/50 chance of them being male. Why not? Just because LJ is home to many a female, why not?

:|
otakugal15: (C:)

[personal profile] otakugal15 2012-08-18 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Cannon cannon cannon~

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 04:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, yes.

That's the point. When you RP sex you're not getting yourself off by yourself - there is another one present and helping... and being helped to in return. I'd hesitate saying it's the same as masturbation.

Re: It's not a shame game.

[personal profile] unicornherds 2012-08-18 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)
For future reference, all the little smiley faces are just as annoying as "sweetie" or "honey" or anything else annoying troll-like comments like to use. Just so you know.

Also, I never said "I keep my privilege in mind all the time" - so I guess I'm not the "you" that you're addressing. In fact, I don't think anyone has said that within this thread. Being aware of privilege isn't the same as keeping it in mind all the time. I'm aware that gravity exists, but I"m not constantly thinking about the matter. I'm aware that my left ankle sometimes goes out on me, but I'm not constantly thinking about it. It's just something I know about myself so when I fall on my face I think "Oh yeah, that's due to gravity and my bad ankle."

As to your oddly phrased drawn out analogy - being aware of your postal privilege won't change anything in the postal system, no. However, being aware of your postal privilege would hopefully change the way you talk about it. It would make you aware that you shouldn't assume everyone has the same postal privilege that you have and can't get mail the same speed. It should make you aware that some people have to wait a really long time and they get frustrated, and that you're pretty lucky to have speedy postal privilege, and to maybe be more careful in the way you talk about it. Awareness, as I said, is the point of privilege, not changing the facts.

That's because when a person constantly has their back to the wall and no means to change anything, then they will either give up and surrender or finally attack.

That is a serious personal problem with your approach to life. When people point out that you're speaking from a place of privilege you should not feel like your back is to the wall and that you have no means to change anything. That's just approaching the whole thing with a defeatist negative attitude.
Edited 2012-08-18 16:37 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
and it's totally outdated in modern warfare~
otakugal15: (Default)

[personal profile] otakugal15 2012-08-18 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
NOT WHEN IT COMES TO SHIP BATTLES!!!! 8D

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Oops, I should have added /sarcasm after my comment :S

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
A friend of mine posted a secret with the same sentiment way back when. It made me smile to see this one pop up.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 04:47 pm (UTC)(link)
http://tvline.com/2012/08/06/revenge-dilshad-vadsaria-season-2/

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
PFFFFFFFFFFFT TORPEDOS ARE WHERE ITS AT!!!! MISSILES TOO. THEY DON'T BECOME USELESS WHEN WET 8D

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 04:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Nine is my doctor, and god, does he break my heart.

Re: question

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I had heard of it, but that interpretation never occurred to me. Huh. Thanks!

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
The thing is that acting like a guilt-ridden self-flagellator is probably the quickest way to get yourself used as a designated whipping boy/girl by those people who're using social justice as a banner under which to satisfy their power-trip cravings, rage-aholism and/or sadistic impulses. One thing you notice with the less pleasant elements of the fandom SJW contingent is that they tend not to pursue people who a) quietly decline to engage, or b) are unrepentant conservatives with the same vitriol as those who express privilege guilt but don't quite tow the line of the week.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? To me it seems to be "I don't have to listen to other people and I will abuse my privilege in real life because I can and because a POC was mean to me on the internet".

Re: holy shit gone harry potter fanfiction author

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Same here! The most I've heard was that someone gave negative criticism or bashed or something one of her stories (don't know which) and she decided to take a hiatus, but that was last year, I think.

I must know more. :o

Re: hey look this video I found

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm only just getting the hang of judging ages myself, don't worry. I used to be horrible at it too. orz

I found that learning anatomy and how to draw humans made me pay attention to what changes how with each age bracket, if that interests you?

Like, there are tips for drawing children, others for drawing teenagers and others for adults, and looking at those helped a lot.

Re: holy shit gone harry potter fanfiction author

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Same here! I want to be all respectful of their decisions, and actually, most of the time I don't even care that much about the missing stories (depends on what stories, of course), but there is this insatiable curiosity of at least wanting to know what happened and why and what was the story about and was it any good and that makes me all nosy and stuff too.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
The uninvolved white kid can feel upset. But going about their life they will probably forgot someone called they "whithey" pretty fast because in the world he lives he doesn't really have to worry about the impact that had on his life beyond a few moments of him feeling bad.

Meanwhile the black kid keeps getting picked on and because uninvolved white kid made sure the focus on the problem was on himself/the black kid calling him a name, that now the black kid is "mean minority nobody likes and doesn't deserve to be heard unless he's willing to make nice with people that don't care about his problems as much as their own feeling on the internet".

Are you missing the point on purpose, or?

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:30 pm (UTC)(link)
TROLL IN THE DUNGEON!!!!!!!!

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Bye
kasumi14: (alicia messiah)

Re: Can I have some hugs please?

[personal profile] kasumi14 2012-08-18 05:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been having a bad day too and this literally gives me a big smile and warm fuzzy feeling. Thanks case!